Alan Kenneth Speiser
August 12, 1953 ~ July 1, 2024
Born in:
New York, NY
Resided in:
Livingston, NJ
It is with great sadness that we share that Alan passed away Monday evening, July 1 at his home in Livingston, NJ surrounded by his family. He was 70 years old.
Alan was a beloved son to Harry and Edythe, wife to Elaine, father to his 2 children Gillian and Matthew, and friend to countless others. His humor, levity, and compassion could raise the spirits of any room he walked into.
Born in Manhattan and raised in the Bronx, Alan treated life as an adventure, and he had the scars to prove it. He was a man of many passions, and he indulged in them as often as he could: fine wine, fast cars, rock n’ roll music, European travel, the Yankees, golf, and just a little marijuana from time to time.
To know Alan was to be absorbed by his warmth, candor, and integrity. He truly was one of one, and the world is a little colder today without him.
In lieu of flowers, the family wishes friends and family donate to Project Purple ( https://www.projectpurple.org ), a nonprofit organization dedicated to pancreatic cancer research, treatment, and family support. The family will be sitting Shiva through the weekend. If interested in attending, email Matthew at spyzguyz@gmail.com.”
Services
Graveside Service: Friday, July 5, 2024 12:00 pm
Beth El Cemetery
Soilder Hill Road & Forest Avenue
Paramus, NJ 7024
201-262-1100
Elaine, we are sending our condolences to you and your family . We wish you peace and comfort at this difficult time
Alan was a really very special man, and we will be forever grateful to give me a daughter.
Rest in Peace dear Alan!
Cristina y Carlitos Pichardo-Canela
La Romana
Dominican Republic
My deepest condolences to Alan’s family, we were high school buddies with much in common and both moved to Fort Lee from the Bronx at 15 years old . We had been in touch in recent years discovering we both married UK citizens from the same area of England and shared very similar world views. I admired his dedication to his Father who if I am correct is still with us at the young age of 105. Rest in peace dear Alan.
Alan lived his life the way he wanted with great passion. We were friends for over 40 years. I remember Alan saying he was indestructible and would live forever. Alan you will live forever in my heart and in those who knew and loved you. Rest in Peace my dear friend.
My condolences to Elaine, Gillian and Matthew
Alan was certainly unique and I enjoyed our conversations. Sending you, Jillian, Matthew and Harry my love.
Linda Baron
Our condolences to Elaine Matt Gillian and Harry
at this very difficult time
May Alan’s memory be for a blessing for all of you
We are sorry we can’t be with you in perso
All our love
Michael Adrienne Mark Vanessa Dov Mia Jamie Ben Noah Kaya and Suki
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Alan, my old Fort Lee High friend. You hosted my 17th surprise birthday in your parents basement, a night i will never forget. We went to many memorable concerts at the Fillmore and Capitol theater. Many many good times. Rest well old friend.
Elliot Jacoby