Rabbi Nathaniel David Benjamin
September 5, 1945 ~ November 29, 2023
RABBI NATHANIEL BENJAMIN
We are saddened by the passing of beloved Rabbi Nathaniel Benjamin on November 29.
Rabbi Benjamin was the Founding Rabbi and leader of Chavurah Beth Shalom in Alpine, New Jersey for 32 years, during which time he brought enormous warmth, guidance, joy and solace to thousands of people.
Many members of the congregation remember Rabbi Benjamin with great affection as he performed their marriages, their children’s baby naming and children’s Bar and Bar Mitzvah Services, family member’s Funerals, Unveilings and other life cycle events both here in the metropolitan New York / New Jersey area, throughout the United States and abroad.
Throughout the year, Rabbi Benjamin performed weekly Shabbat Services as well as Chanukah, Passover and High Holiday Services.
RABBI BENJAMIN’S BACKGROUND
Besides officiating as a rabbi, he was also an outstanding cantor. His musical talents were recognized early by his mother Rose Friedman Benjamin who taught piano and musical theory in the Inwood section of upper Manhattan. Upon discovering that her six-year-old possessed perfect pitch and was able to play melodies on the piano after hearing them only once, she enrolled him in the preparatory division of the Julliard School Of Music where he was granted a full scholarship to study violin, piano, and musical theory. At the age of seven, he was playing in their young people’s orchestra and chamber ensembles.
During his college years Rabbi Benjamin continued to be involved with Jewish Music and religious services. He also began to establish a reputation as an outstanding religious school teacher and Baal Koreh . Nat began preparing for a career as a Cantor and was fortunate to study With Cantor David Koussevitzky and Zvi Aroni. His studies included Nusach and cantillation with Cantor Moshe Nathanson, Yiddish Art songs with Sidor Belarsky and Lazar Weiner. He received his formal Vocal training with the renowned opera singer John Kuhn, professor of voice at New York University.
Following his investiture as Cantor from Herzeliah Jewish Teachers Seminary and his rabbinical ordination several years later from The New Seminary, Rabbinical Seminary International, Rabbi Benjamin served congregations in New York and New Jersey.
Prior to the establishment of Chavurah Beth Shalom, he served as Cantor of Temple Sinai in Tenafly. He has also served at Riverdale Temple in New York City and Temple Beth Shalom in Clifton, New Jersey.
Rabbi Benjamin was a past President of The Jewish Ministers Cantors Association of America. He was a member of the Board of Governors of the American Society for Jewish Music. Rabbi Benjamin was also a member of the Rabbinical Fellowship of America.
Rabbi/Cantor Benjamin was also known as the founder of the annual Cantor’s Concert at The Jewish Community Center on the Palisades. In addition to his duties as a spiritual leader of Chavurah Beth Shalom, Rabbi Benjamin served as an officer with the American Society for Jewish Music where he sponsored their annual Chanukah concert and their Contemporary Composers concert which take place at the Jewish American Historical Society in New York City.
Rabbi Benjamin was married to Jill Benjamin for 56 years. He is survived by his daughter Renee Benjamin, his son Jason Benjamin and his wife Beth and his granddaughter Amanda Benjamin.
Nat will be deeply missed by so many people whose life he enriched.
I first met Nat Benjamin when we were both in Cantorial School in the early 1970’s and we graduated together from Herzliah- Jewish Teachers Seminary and Peoples University in New York Ciry. We were invested together as Cantor’s and then we both got our Rabbinical Smicha. We have been close friends for 50 years and shared many joyoue times together.
May his memory live on as a Blessing and all the acts of kindness he performed will be part of lis Legacy.
Rabbi Dennis Tobin –
Chavurah Temple Beth El – Co-Op City, Bronx NY
Our family has know Rabbi Nat Benjamin since 2003. He conducted my daughters’ Bat Mitzvahs and marriages. He was also there for all of our life events. We were regular Friday night service goers at the Alpine house and attended the High Holy Days. Rabbi Nat was a beloved rabbi who had a profound dedication to his congregation. Rabbi Nat was not only a revered spiritual leader but also a cherished friend. His unwavering commitment to both his role as a rabbi and as a friend enriched the lives of those around him. He will be deeply missed.
Yes, I was close with him. He was a joyful, warm, generous and very talented spiritual leader and friend. He really was a good influence and presence in my life, going all the way back to 1979 when he trained me for my Bat Mitzvah. The Friday night services he led had helped me so much to get through my separation from my then-husband. He also was very encouraging to me in my pursuits of poetry. He produced several poetry events at Chavurah Beth Shalom where I was a featured or co-featured poet. He also co-founded with me the current monthly poetry group that I coordinate. I will miss Nat deeply, and keep his spirit in my heart and memories.
Rabbi Benjamin was a part of our family, for many years presiding at bar mitzvahs,bat mitzvahs,weddings in Minneapolis , Connecticut and New Jersey
He will be missed by all our family
Helen and David Keery
Hackensack,N.J
My husband Aleksandr and I have known Rabbi Benjamin since 2019 after he stepped in for our cantor that passed away. We are so happy our paths crossed. He officiated our wedding in September of 2020 and made the ceremony extra beautiful with his lovely singing and wonderfully said words. He was truly a gentle, beautiful soul and will be dearly missed. A big loss. May you rest in eternal peace Rabbi Benjamin.
I have known him since I was a little kid, and he was always a great friend and a great influence on me and my family and friends throughout my life experiences as well as a great role model and mentor! He had a great singing voice, and he was very good at playing the guitar and the piano and bringing the community together for numerous occasions during his career as a cantor and a rabbi. He was also very passionate about music, and he was also very enthusiastic about his work with the Beth Shalom organization as well as giving his advice, encouragement, support, and words of wisdom for people who were struggling in their own lives. He brought everyone together for the virtual online community events on Zoom when helping us get through the pandemic crisis as a community leader, and his leadership and support helped us make it through the difficult times. His legacy will continue to evolve and grow and live on through the years with the support of many people who are passionate about making Beth Shalom a great success! He was a great leader and founder of this organization that helped create a great society and community for all people of different backgrounds and cultures.
I’m so glad that I got a chance to see Nathaniel Benjamin in person at the house in Tenafly, New Jersey when he was performing the naming ceremony for my daughter, Heather Lily in the summer vacation of 2022. I’m also very grateful for the opportunity to connect with Nathaniel Benjamin on Zoom and chat with him about the many different interesting things that were discussed at the virtual online poetry workshop sessions. He was a wonderful friend and a wonderful teacher and a wonderful storyteller who shared his passion for music and poetry and nature.
Two one of the most amazing people I have ever known! By changing the trajectory of my life, you helped me find my direction and helped me to find who I am!
There was a darkness in the world caused by your passing.
Safe journey my friend!
Rabbi Steve Meltz
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I always appreciated the cantorial concerts that Cantor Benjamin organized at the JCC in Tenafly. My he rest in peace, and may his friends and family be comforted among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.